quote:ripshyt: It's hard to find a black woman who thinks for herself as opposed to a mouthpiece for all unhappy black women.
I see quite a few different viewpoints around AA
quote:little minx: i actually feel sad because we so often have this discussion with each other. the men stating what they think is wrong with women, and the women saying what they think is wrong with the men. there's so much anger and hostility in our community towards each other. no wonder our community is in such trouble.
There's an old saying. 'If you can name it, then you can fix it.'
quote:little minx: ...the important thing from what i've read here, is that for the most part, everyone is complaining because of a general lack of ability to connect with the opposite gender. at least that's positive. at least we still give a damn about the opposite gender of the same race. that means at least we long to connect with each other, even if we are not always successful. that's a start.