quote:Originally posted by Rowe:quote:Originally posted by ddouble:
What specifically did these insightful men you spoke with say? What are they doing that yields them such results?
To put it succintly, these men are on another level. Many of them are vegan, they don't drink, they don't smoke cigarettes (or weed), and they avoid intermingling (romatically) with lost people. And by doing this, they avoid the frustration that results from dealing with ignorant and lost women. Some of them are so selective that they will not date a woman who chemically straightens her hair, because a woman who is willing to sacrifice her health in order to conform to a Eurocentric standard of beauty reveals something about that woman's state of mind. This is why I have said that if a man desires to attract more distinguished types of women, then he must seriously evaluate his mindset in its current state. It is no secret that the people to whom we are attracted and with which we become involved are essentially a representation of who we are.
You still did not explain what puts these men on "another level" as you put it. You just described more personal preferences. Being vegan is a choice - not necessarily a better one than eating meats. Vegans have their own health issues to deal with. There are some nutrients that are hard to come by in vegan diets. Particularly if they do not consume diary. Drinking in moderation is shown to improve heart health and lipid profiles, so being a non-drinker isn't inherently better either. How do you determine someone is "lost" at first sight? It takes at least one conversation, maybe more to determine compatability. A person can do all the things these men do and still be ignorant and lost. They could date women that share their preferences that still are ignorant and lost.
What does distinguished mean to you? Is it education? Social status? Fashion sense? Age? Wealth? Diet? This is also a bit ambiguous. Once you define this for me, please explain how this stops one from being a poor dating choice or making poor dating choices?
Your last sentence cannot be proven in any manner, so I'll leave it alone.