Detroit1 meant SOME women, and because I live in the area I can attest to what happens on the singles scene on Friday and Saturday nights. This has been going on for well over twenty years. This issue with people (In Detroit, it is mostly women) who testify to holding one standard, but somehow magically end up with an individual who is the exact opposite; as most men know that SOME brothers are great, and others are truly hazardous. There are many who are in strong, loving, real relationships, these people are often not heard from"”simply because they are living their lives"”happily.
Men are expected to speak their minds and be consistent in action. I am, personally, a "legit" or "square" type, thus the ladies dismissed me.
The amazing thing is, Thugs are antisocial"”they espouse a philosophy which is destructive of others (Black-on-Black crime, remember?) and destructive of self, and these people live lives of delusion"”it's all about them, and what they want. Yet women do the choosing, and by choosing the Thug, they choose one of the major contributing factors of black cultural decline--they validate his mind-set. (To hell with those collage Mo'Fo's.) ... some Black women actually choose to visit their child's father with a sheet of glass separating them, or six-feet of dirt. Tell me how this is logical.
The God/King (?) by those very words it is implicit how unattainable this individual is. I am but a common man, but every Black Woman is a Queen. All of you can't be the kind of woman a God would want"”not to mention the fury of competition. Yet you compare a flesh and blood man to a God"”and b*tch & moan because the mortal-males just never seem to measure up (despicable failures!) Explain how this desire of the unattainable ideal is rational.
(Now, when I was single, I dated models"”because I was in Advertising. I even dated "dancers", but these women never hinted their disgust with my inferiority"”then, they weren't Black.)
By the reasoning of some of the women who post here"”I should not be married. Then, my wife is just a woman, very wonderfully so!