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Reply to "Cognitive dissonance and the black woman"

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Originally posted by Rowe:
I'm doing well. The woman featured in my last avatar was actually a native African woman from the Fulani tribe. I'll put the image of the woman up again, in the future.
Great! It would be nice to see..... Her beauty was captivating.... I have a cousin that looks like that....

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Dig Deeper, and Start Pursuing Women of Substance, Not Pin-Up Bimbo Models
Hmmmm... I did not see where his question made reference to him approaching shallow Bimbo's...

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Sister there are a lot of people here who are confused and in pain, apparently. Therefore this brother's grievances are no different from those that have been expressed here before.
If there are many here who are confused and in pain.... then is it wrong to offer solace through understanding? And I have been away from the board for many months until now... so even if he or others have expressed their grievances before.... usually this is the mark of one who is trying to say that there questions aren't answered.... or for some reason their mind is still at unease.... I see this as human.... not something to be frustrated with.....

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One of the ways that we can address his confusion, however, is by not allowing his misconceptions about women to go unchallenged.
Agreed... that is... if he really has a misconception.... I really don't think he does.... because I have experienced what he has articulated.... I know women like this..... they are not Bimbo's, shallow, lower class etc.... and this is the confusion I think he refers to.... how can some women make such bad choices in a partner? I don't think he specified whether the woman was a Bimbo or not... if he did then that would not be a contradiction.... He spoke of a contradiction.... so if I had to assume.... I would assume he meant a woman with "some" substance... at least in his eyes.... the women he deems are worthy are making odd choices to him..... I happen to know women who are of substance..... who make crazy choices.... I consider myself a woman of substance and I've made crazy choices before.... and I have to reflect on why..... it happens... no big deal... you reflect, analyze, learn... and move on....

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I hate to come across as mean,
I don't think so.... Smile.... You strike me as a woman who is very focused and confident about her view of life....

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but what I've noticed is that it's usually busters who know darn well that they're out of their league that go after the the most superficial, most attractive, most image-conscious women they can find. Unfortunately, however, these are the type of women who are often the LEAST interested in them. After their self-confidence has taken one punch too many, then they want to come into a dicussion forum and bitch about how "all women are stuck up, materialistic, and superficial." Well if you're pursuing women who are like this, then what the hell else can you expect! But if you instead pursued women in your league, and more importantly, women of SUBSTANCE rather than women who you deem good enough to parade in front of their friends, then perhaps you would not face constant rejection. After unsuccessfully picking "lookers" to pursue, don't come in here blaming us cause you can't get you a "dime piece." Why not get a 5 piece with a 10+ brain, someone with whom you can actually build a worthwhile relationship, rather than just fuck on the weekends and front off before your friends.
When I see this type of response by brothers... I usually ignore it.... but I don't here...


Peace,
Virtue
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