quote:Originally posted by Max:
I'm quite accustomed to many black women going for the "thug" type whether he's a real thug or fashionable thug (which is normally the case), so I don't necessarily disapprove of women getting with them; I respect and appreciate a black woman's right to date/fuck whomever she wants...it's when this "strong, intelligent black woman" choses to ignore the consequences of dealing with these "thug" types-that's what I dissaprove of; when shit hits the fan in this type of relationship, she comes down with a wicked case of Cognitive Dissonance - blaming everybody from the priest, to the milkman, the clerk at Pathmark, the bus-driver and the paper-boy long before taking responsibilty for her own actions for getting involved with Mr. Thug-life. She stresses her independence to date/fuck whomever she choses, and expect everybody to respect that right (that's fair); yet, when she sees me holding hands with a with a white girl name "Becky" (or some spanish girl name "Jaunita") she ignores my right to date/fuck whomever I want, and decides to "tell it like it is" saying I'm full of "self-hatred" & full of shit?!
Yes, HonestBrother, it is strange (cue Twilight Zone Theme song)
My sentiments exactly....