quote:Originally posted by Rowe:quote:Originally posted by HonestBrother:
Women's fault...Men's fault... we're both conditioned to live in this system which was not created by us. We're all at fault and none of us at fault at the same time.
I can accept this response, but what's even more vexing--and perhaps you can help me to understand--is why don't these men who are always complaining about some women's attraction to thugs take heed to their own advice? Why don't they make better choices in women? If your relationship with a woman ends because ultimately she prefers to be with a misfit, then she is not a person that you want to be involved with in the first place! What's worse, if you find yourself consistently involved with street women, then I think a self-evaluation is in order.
Aint that the truth....that is why that it is my life's goal to avoid with a passion only matched by my desire to be a great pathologist, sistas who share or strongly hold onto the idealology of the ideal god/thug man....it is a futile idea bread out of childish notions that should have been discarded a long time ago....and it entails nothing but anguish for guys like me...So, Rowe, your suggestion is well taken and actually has been acted upon over the last several years.