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Reply to "Cognitive dissonance and the black woman"

"Why do so many established black men describe the response and reactions toward them by black women as being negative in nature?

If you were to witness the response and reaction black women give to established brothers, you would observe minimal involvement, no acknowledgement, defensive reflex, contempt type attitudes and even being threatened to some degree."

Im going to say this and bounce......

*I cant seem to keep my mouth closed* sck *sigh* is another perspective.

After talking with friends/family, it seems that 'some' black women are fearful of educated, established black men.

These are men with financial power in the community. The community looks up to these men, and they have the ability to hurt, and discard those in their circle. (friends/lovers, etc)

A lot of women are defensive.....and will put up a wall, (not giving this type of black man a chance), because either she has experienced this or has seen this happen to other women.

Thats my two cents Smile