quote:Darlin', I can't agree that that is why women self sabatoge a relationship.
Come on, Heavenly, let's not jump to conclusions and make generalizations like some of the other people on this site have a tendency to do.
Let me quote exactly what I said on self-sabbotage:
quote:I have an extremely high sex drive but, at the same time, I'm a devout monogamist because I love being in love, and I love learning every inch of weaknesses of my woman's body, which some of the women I've dated couldn't grasp. The resulting effect, in some cases, was self-sabbotage of the relationship on behalf of the woman.
I did specifically say, "in some cases," which is what I meant. There are a number of reactions some of the women I've dated have displayed when involved with them.
Now, as for me, celibacy has never been hard for me to maintain. I simply just don't share the same mentality many other men subscribe to--I don't allow my dick to override my brain. I have never been promiscuous when in a relationship and I've never had multiple sex partners when I wasn't in a relationship, well, maybe once but that was by circumstance (it was Springbreak, dammit!)--it wasn't planned, nevertheless, celibacy has never been a problem.