quote:The highly sexual person is often misunderstood for promiscious, why is that? Is it that hard for many to wrap their mind around the fact that there are highly sexual people that also have self respect and control?
I don't quite think it's so much the case that a highly sexed person is percieved as being promiscuous as it is the case of the person doing the percieving may be insecure and paranoid.
I have an extremely high sex drive but, at the same time, I'm a devout monogamist because I love being in love, and I love learning every inch of weaknesses of my woman's body, which some of the women I've dated couldn't grasp. The resulting effect, in some cases, was self-sabbotage of the relationship on behalf of the woman.
It's funny, though, how after they've had a few months to think about how wrong they were, they always call, wanting to get back together, which leads to the next topic of discussion, Heavenly.......