quote:Originally posted by Noah The African:
You can generate a lot more appreciation and love when it's unexpected. Bringing your women flowers on a day where she has no expectations goes a lot further than bringing her flowers on a day where that is what a guy is supposed to do. Also, it cost a lot less. I am getting away from gift giving on these commercialized days and replace it with spontaneous and sporadic demonstrations of love and affection....which is not always a material gift.
I do the same thing ... bring flowers and gifts home just because. But woe be to me should I not send my wife flowers, to her job, on V-Day, her birthday and our anniversary. It took me a while to understand, the flowers to the job are not so much for my wife, but are all about the other women that work with my wife.