Reply to "Black Love Day (BLD) - Anybody heard of/celebrated this before?"

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Originally posted by Noah The African:
You can generate a lot more appreciation and love when it's unexpected. Bringing your women flowers on a day where she has no expectations goes a lot further than bringing her flowers on a day where that is what a guy is supposed to do. Also, it cost a lot less. I am getting away from gift giving on these commercialized days and replace it with spontaneous and sporadic demonstrations of love and affection....which is not always a material gift.



Noah... I don't know why I have not paid attention to your posts before... but I'm really liking the way you think...

I know people want to remain positive... but honestly I feel we do too much of this kind of thing in our community... there is nothing wrong with it... and I believe good can be had of anything with those involved participating with the right motivations...

true love... true comraderie... true bonding in our communtities will not be had by proclaiming a day to love everyone... and our problems in this area really need to be seriously addressed at the core...

that said... I'm not against it... I just think we are imbalanced in our method of approach to things...
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