quote:Originally posted by folobatuyi:
The real message should be that ladies have much more to offer than their virginity.
I'M MORE THAN JUST A BOOTY!
I agree. Another excellent observation. I'm also against women describing their first love-making experience as having "lost" their virginity. What have you lost, exactly? Is virginity your heart, your soul, your mind, or your ability to think and evolve as a human being? Does a woman die after having sex? Does she become useless to society? These kinds of questions need to be seriously addressed because they reveal people's attitudes about the worth of women in general.
I don't regret having my first love-making experience. I wanted to do it, and I liked it. My boyfriend and I at the time were very much in love and he cared for me a great deal. I feel no shame or guilt about having lived this experience. It's apart of my life and I accept it. It's all good. Life is good. And no, I'm not promiscuous. My relationships tend to be years apart.