These are places where you are likely to meet guys who share your values and commitment to abstinence until marriage.
Oh dear sister, this is such a fragile topic. I hope people are just as careful responding to your dilemma as I hope to be. This is what I think you should do. If you are going to stand by your values, then ONLY DATE men who share your values. That is, men who are committed to remaining a virgin until marriage. Unless that individual is interested in one day marrying you, I think it's little unfair to expect someone who is sexually-active and who enjoys an active sex life to conform to your values. Therefore, I suggests that you join:
Christian singles clubs, bolling, skating
Christian singles trips and vacations
Christian singles outings and picnics
These are places where you are likely to meet guys who share your values and commitment to abstinence until marriage.
These are places where you are likely to meet guys who share your values and commitment to abstinence until marriage.