I think its all about adjusting your work to fit your family not your family to fit your work. A lot of the kids in my day care center their parents are very career goal oriented. I have this one girl, this is a very smart child but her mother and father are both classic workaholics so she acts out from time to time. But anyway back to the original question I think that todays women are deserving of marriage and do fit the roles of mother and wife of the future of today. Men say that they don't make women like they used to, but then again they don't make men like they used too, either.