Shout out to Mr. Al Reynolds...RRSOTD

 

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By    |  November 3, 2017 2:19 PM EST  |   1 

Star Jones Reynolds, Al Reynolds inside for 2005 Mercedes-Benz Polo Challenge, The Bridgehampton Polo Club BPC, Bridgehampton, NY, July 30, 2005  (Photo Credit: Everett Collection)

“I am capable of loving both sexes, and I have done both,” says Al Reynolds, the ex husband of famed attorney Star Jones. He made this revelation in an exclusive interview with Radar Online. In an interview that starts, “Ever since I have been in the public eye, people have been speculating on my sexuality. And ‘speculating’ is a kind word for how it actually played out. With anger and disdain, people have been calling me out as gay, closeted, a sham and even nastier; much nastier,” Reynolds puts his sexual preferences on blast.

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The Wall Street executive adds, “Today … I accept myself as a bisexual man.”

Reynolds and Jones have been divorced for eight years.

Reynold’s goes on to say:

I have learned that sexual orientation is not binary, at least for me. I am capable of loving both sexes, and I have done both. My relationships, all of them, have been honest and based on my attraction to the other person. When I am in love I don’t equivocate, nor do I waver.

I tell this story to both encourage my personal path, as well as give some small measure of hope to others that no matter your beginnings, no matter the obstacles, there is nothing so fulfilling and Godlike as living the life that was destined.

Jones, 55, is now engaged to Ricardo Lugo, an Illinois assistant state’s attorney. They started dating in the summer of 2016 and went public with their romance that same year, at the 8th Annual Children’s Museum of the East End Family Affair in Bridgehampton, New York.

Here’s a gallery that takes us back down memory lane of Al and Star Jones Reynolds.

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STAR JONES REYNOLDS & husband AL REYNOLDS at the 37th Annual NAACP Image Awards at the Shrine Auditorium, Los Angeles. February 25, 2006 Los Angeles, CA. 2006 (Photo Credit: Paul Smith / Featureflash)

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Love yourself and STFU. It's no one's business what, whom or where you like to poke!! What you suffer in reality is sexual confusion. Enjoy yourself; hopefully, you don't come down with the heebie jeebies. Whomever you're poking, just remember he's some mother's son, if you're not into bestiality or sex slavery or pedophilia.

These days folks are beyond freaky; men and women. Men don't realize the sexual equipment you're born with, that grows with you, if you live long enough, will wear out on you, Viagra or No!!! The wigly squigly will just be hanging if it was ever long enough, otherwise, it'll just be another little bump, with a nurse cleaning it for you, if you're lucky enough to live that long.The whole while, you'll be glad when death comes.

I could tell he was into men.  He has that look.  But the thing is?  If that's what you like?  Tell folks.  So they can make an informed discussion if they wanna deal with you or not.  This is the same thing that happened to Terry McMillan.  She married a young pretty boy,   And he was a closet bi-sexual.  Turns out he was fully gay and used Terry to live a high lifestyle.  The same with this guy.  I think Starr knew but wanted to get married anyway.  These type of relationships don't work cuz there is always fear of HIV.  And eventually the man comes out.  What confuses me is how Terry's guy gonna be gay but at the time of his coming out never engaged in gay sex.  Cuz you can be attracted to men but it doesn't make you gay.  So to me...being gay is being active in the activity of being gay not fantasizing about it.  Doesn't make sense.  Don't have anything against it but it is unfair to keep this to yourself if you are involved in a heterosexual relationship....especially if you are having sex....just isn't fair to the other party.  But!

It isn't fair to the other party, but a woman cannot be sure what the hell a man does when he's by himself, stepping out alone. He might go to a pornographic movie, a strip club, a gay club, pick up a bastard in his car. No one can be sure what the other's doing ever. All one has is his(her) word and trust. There's NO guarantee!!!!

Kocolicious posted:

I could tell he was into men.  He has that look.  But the thing is?  If that's what you like?  Tell folks.  So they can make an informed discussion if they wanna deal with you or not.  This is the same thing that happened to Terry McMillan.  She married a young pretty boy,   And he was a closet bi-sexual.  Turns out he was fully gay and used Terry to live a high lifestyle.  The same with this guy.  I think Starr knew but wanted to get married anyway.  These type of relationships don't work cuz there is always fear of HIV.  And eventually the man comes out.  What confuses me is how Terry's guy gonna be gay but at the time of his coming out never engaged in gay sex.  Cuz you can be attracted to men but it doesn't make you gay.  So to me...being gay is being active in the activity of being gay not fantasizing about it.  Doesn't make sense.  Don't have anything against it but it is unfair to keep this to yourself if you are involved in a heterosexual relationship....especially if you are having sex....just isn't fair to the other party.  But!

He's been fruity forever.  Even when Star Jones introduced him as her man, I knew he seemed like he was a paid actor filling a role as a hetero.  I hope he can find his truth and his peace.  No need to act anymore, just be yourself.

  I agree my brotha.  And Starr needs to take your advice too.  Just be yourself.  Life is too short.  There are a lot of men who love thick women but she wanted a pretty boy.  And as I always say....pretty is dangerous.  Cuz it's external.  You want to look for beauty...it's internal and something that you can build a life with.  Starr will probably realized that once she gets a little older....right now?  She still have "stars" in her eyes[even as old as she is now].  And having those fake stars  will only sabotage and delay what she could have right now.  But!  

Star used to have so much on the ball! Where is she now?? She made The View worth watching. I haven't watched The View for a couple years now. I even used to like Whoopie! Watched her old show and everything!! Not too fond of her now!! She became old and dowdy. I know old; but one does not have to become dowdy!! Look like you take a bath occasionally, just for the hell of it!! At least, try to look like you smell good!! You don't have to look homeless with a million bucks in your pocket. They have some pretty colored liquid eye brown pencils, Whoopie. You should try one. Those fake dreds are tired too, all lined in bald grey naps. That shit ain't pretty!! Whoopie, you've become scary!!!!!

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